When I hear the phrase, “Well that’s what we did with our kids and they turned out fine,”
I have to ask, “Are they?” The way I look at this sentence is just because someone does it and they presume that everything is okay or they turned out fine does not mean they necessarily did. Also, what makes that the right way? Just because people are raised a certain way, does not mean that they in-turn need to raise their children that way. This is how the cycle continues and does not get corrected especially if it is pertaining to any kinds of abuse.